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Forgiveness is a beautiful healing process.

I, Tony Gray Owl Love you unconditionally, I forgive you unconditionally and I ask also to be forgiven in like manner. This is how I came to that statement, entering the silence I asked the Great Spirit…

What is Forgiveness?

What does it mean?

Why is this such a difficult concept?

In answering my request the Great Spirit asked me to teach the world the true meaning of forgiveness… to help all people in understanding what forgiveness truly is and how to apply it in one’s heart, mind and life.

Most people think or say, I cannot do this… I cannot… I will not… why should I forgive those who have inflicted physical harm on me… who have tormented me … and assaulted me … verbally and physically abused me… the list goes on…

Why? why should I do this…? I did not deserve what they have done and still do to me… living with this continuous pain constantly reminding me of what has been done. Tears pouring as I remember all these things. Why are you punishing me and not them? It is them who should suffer not me.

I am doing this not only for you, but for myself as well. I began my search for the true meaning of forgiveness by looking deep within my own heart. I also gathered many books, articles and stories on this topic, trying to understand its true meaning… yet I could not find any Miracle to heal these wounds within my heart and mind.

However I eventually came to these realizations…
Through deep introspection I realized that forgiveness does not mean, “What was done or said is by any means okay to me, it simply means “I AM no longer willing to carry around the pain in response to others actions”… when we hold UN-forgiveness in our hearts, we only punish ourselves, is this what you really truly wish for?

When you hold anger and resentment towards another, you are bound to that person or conditions by an emotional link that is stronger than steel, forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free…let go of anger and resentment, and feel yourself healed. You don’t need to forgive the action, simply forgive yourself and that person/s, so that “you” can be at peace…

Forgiveness is not something you give to someone else. It is a gift you give yourself, personal forgiveness allows you to live in the present and leave the past behind. Forgiveness will bring you peace. Forgiveness resides not only in words but also in thought, feeling and action.

It not only uplifts you AND that person in ways unseen, but it brings that much more light to a world in need. Forgiveness is not something we MUST do, yet when we step away from the consciousness of our human nature, and allow the divine of God’s grace to express through us, to forgive through us, we can at that point, feel the radiant and warm rays of the flow of divine love dissolving all hurt, all bitterness, all sense of injustice. We become aware that we are free and we can project that love outward into our world…

What have we learned about “Forgiveness”…?

In conclusion…

Forgiveness has no time frame… it is a focused process. Each one of us will work through this process at our own pace. There is no wrong or right way of doing this… no particular method or wording that one could use to create an instant result, leaving one’s self with the feeling of Peace and harmony within one’s heart and mind.

It is an ascension into the higher realm of thought and understanding human emotions, remember there is no time frame it will happen when you are ready to let go of the pain.

We will heal from this… we will be set free… when we have learned the true meaning of forgiveness…Which can only begin when we first learn how… to forgive ourself.

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